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TJ Brodie knew full well that girlfriend Amber DeBakker had been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis when he proposed in 2016.

The ensuing years have seen the stress of symptoms, medical appointments and some mornings where Amber suffers vision problems or has no feeling in her legs. We’ll venture there have been a few tears of frustration for the couple along the way of battling an often-debilitating disease of which the cause is not known and there is no present cure.
But seven years, two kids and many trials later in their early 30s, the Maple Leafs defenceman and his wife are committed to as fulfilling a life as possible and being spokespersons to help other MS patients.

They are leading a major fundraiser all day Thursday for Burgers To Beat MS Day, in partnership with the A&W restaurant chain in Canada. Two bucks from every Teenburger sold will go to MS Canada, a promotion that has raised nearly $20 million in 15 years.

Amber holds to the personal credo posted atop her social media account — “If it doesn’t challenge you, it doesn’t change you.”

“I have good days and bad days,” she said during the couple’s interview with the Toronto Sun. “A good one is when I even forget I have MS, a bad day is when I have blurry vision, numbness and fatigue. I do as much as possible to reduce inflammation, which in controlled through diet and different types of cold therapy.

“MS obviously comes with its physical challenges, but what’s not talked about enough is the mental challenges — the day-by-day, not knowing what tomorrow is going to bring.

“Changing your perspective is about how you’re grateful for waking up each day.”

She and TJ (Thomas James) knew each other way back as nine and 10-year-olds in Dresden, Ont., near the Brodie’s farm on the road to Chatham. They continued to date well into the start of his NHL career with the Calgary Flames.

He carried an engagement ring around for six months, until it came out soon after her emotional phone call during a Flames trip to tell him an MRI of her unexplained afflictions was actually MS.

She recalled how much TJ’s soothing words meant at the time.

“It came as a shock,” Amber said of his proposal. “(Marriage) was my hope of course, but it speaks volumes of who TJ is as a person: Quiet, calm, the support I’ve needed. He’s always there for me”.

Brodie is one of the most soft-spoken Leafs, at least in public, but he has been inspired by Amber’s courage and his own desire to spread the word of the MS cause. Both dove right into researching all aspects of the disease to give her maximum resources.

On average, 12 Canadians are diagnosed every day, one of the highest rates in the world, with more 90,000 in the country living with MS.

It alters the central nervous system, which includes the brain and spinal cord.

“This has taught me a lot about myself, especially that hockey is not everything,” TJ said. “It had been my whole life growing up, all that’s mattered. But when it really comes down to it, what’s most important is your family, friends and people who’ll be there long after hockey is done.

“MS is one of those things you can’t control. Nothing is going to cure it. You try and take the positives and not the bad days you might have ahead, just enjoy the good ones you have right now.”

The couple has a five-year-old daughter, Severn Taney, and two-year-old son, Church Dresden James.

“That adds to the fatigue for sure,” Amber said with a laugh. “Sometimes, I don’t know it it’s the MS or motherhood.”

Lengthy team trips, difficult for NHL families at the best of times, can take a toll on the Brodies.

“It’s harder as the kids start growing up,” TJ noted. “They start to understand (Amber’s condition) a bit more. They tell you they don’t want you to leave. But we have a good support system now that we’re closer to home (since he signed in Toronto almost three years ago). We have people within driving distance when I’m gone. Knowing that makes it easier.”

Proceeds from events such as Beat MS Day are channeled to prevention and management.

Donations also can be made online at BurgersToBeatMS.ca site.

BRODIE EXCITED FOR TRELIVING REUNION

There was no trepidation for TJ Brodie when old boss Brad Treliving was named new general manager of the Maple Leafs.

In fact Treliving, known to be an exec who takes special interest in the well-being of his players and staff, was one of the first to offer support when TJ’s wife, Amber, was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2015 in his Calgary Flames’ tenure.

“I always liked Tree,” Brodie said of the coming season. “He was always there if we needed him to talk to. Him reaching out makes a big difference. You know that if there was anything wrong, he was there and he understands.

“That lets you go out and do the job you want to do.”

Brodie is gearing up for Toronto’s training camp in a month’s time. Of course, he has followed Treliving’s major off-season acquisitions, led by forwards Tyler Bertuzzi, Max Domi, Ryan Reaves, Dylan Gambrell, defenceman John Klingberg and goaltender Martin Jones.

There’s also a new assistant coach for the Toronto blue line, NHL veteran Mike Van Ryn.

“I don’t know any of them personally, but I will eventually,” Brodie said. “I’ve played against them all. We’ve definitely added some grit and guys that will move the body around.

“Mike will be a great addition. He has a lot of experience with the St. Louis Blues when they won the Cup (2019). It’s exciting.”

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Canada’s Marina Stakusic falls in Guadalajara Open quarterfinals

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GUADALAJARA, Mexico – Canada’s Marina Stakusic fell 6-4, 6-3 to Poland’s Magdalena Frech in the quarterfinals of the Guadalajara Open tennis tournament on Friday.

The 19-year-old from Mississauga, Ont., won 61 per cent of her first-serve points and broke on just one of her six opportunities.

Stakusic had upset top-seeded Jelena Ostapenko of Latvia 6-3, 5-7, 7-6 (0) on Thursday night to advance.

In the opening round, Stakusic defeated Slovakia’s Anna Karolína Schmiedlová 6-2, 6-4 on Tuesday.

The fifth-seeded Frech won 62 per cent of her first-serve points and converted on three of her nine break point opportunities.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 13, 2024.

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Kirk’s walk-off single in 11th inning lifts Blue Jays past Cardinals 4-3

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TORONTO – Alejandro Kirk’s long single with the bases loaded provided the Toronto Blue Jays with a walk-off 4-3 win in the 11th inning of their series opener against the St. Louis Cardinals on Friday.

With the Cardinals outfield in, Kirk drove a shot off the base of the left-field wall to give the Blue Jays (70-78) their fourth win in 11 outings and halt the Cardinals’ (74-73) two-game win streak before 30,380 at Rogers Centre.

Kirk enjoyed a two-hit, two-RBI outing.

Erik Swanson (2-2) pitched a perfect 11th inning for the win, while Cardinals reliever Ryan Fernandez (1-5) took the loss.

Blue Jays starter Kevin Gausman enjoyed a seven-inning, 104-pitch outing. He surrendered his two runs on nine hits and two walks and fanned only two Cardinals.

He gave way to reliever Genesis Cabrera, who gave up a one-out homer to Thomas Saggese, his first in 2024, that tied the game in the eighth.

The Cardinals started swiftly with four straight singles to open the game. But they exited the first inning with only two runs on an RBI single to centre from Nolan Arendao and a fielder’s choice from Saggese.

Gausman required 28 pitches to escape the first inning but settled down to allow his teammates to snatch the lead in the fourth.

He also deftly pitched out of threats from the visitors in the fifth, sixth and seventh thanks to some solid defence, including Will Wagner’s diving stop, which led to a double play to end the fifth inning.

George Springer led off with a walk and stole second base. He advanced to third on Nathan Lukes’s single and scored when Vladimir Guerrero Jr. knocked in his 95th run with a double off the left-field wall.

Lukes scored on a sacrifice fly to left field from Spencer Horwitz. Guerrero touched home on Kirk’s two-out single to right.

In the ninth, Guerrero made a critical diving catch on an Arenado grounder to throw out the Cardinals’ infielder, with reliever Tommy Nance covering first. The defensive gem ended the inning with a runner on second base.

St. Louis starter Erick Fedde faced the minimum night batters in the first three innings thanks to a pair of double plays. He lasted five innings, giving up three runs on six hits and a walk with three strikeouts.

ON DECK

Toronto ace Jose Berrios (15-9) will start the second of the three-game series on Saturday. He has a six-game win streak.

The Cardinals will counter with righty Kyle Gibson (8-6).

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 13, 2024.

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Stampeders return to Maier at QB eyeing chance to get on track against Alouettes

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CALGARY – Mired in their first four-game losing skid in 20 years, the Calgary Stampeders are going back to Jake Maier at quarterback on Saturday after he was benched for a game.

It won’t be an easy assignment.

Visiting McMahon Stadium are the Eastern Conference-leading Montreal Alouettes (10-2) who own the CFL’s best record. The Stampeders (4-8) have fallen to last in the Western Conference.

“Six games is plenty of time, but also it is just six games,” said Maier. “We’ve got to be able to get on the right track.”

Calgary is in danger of missing the playoffs for the first time since 2004.

“I do still believe in this team,” said Stampeders’ head coach and general manager Dave Dickenson. “I want to see improvement, though. I want to see guys on a weekly basis elevating their game, and we haven’t been doing that.”

Maier is one of the guys under the microscope. Two weeks ago, the second-year starter threw four interceptions in a 35-20 home loss to the Edmonton Elks.

After his replacement, rookie Logan Bonner, threw five picks in last week’s 37-16 loss to the Elks in Edmonton, the football is back in Maier’s hands.

“Any time you fail or something doesn’t go your way in life, does it stink in the moment? Yeah. But then the days go on and you learn things about yourself and you learn how to prepare a little bit better,” said Maier. “It makes you mentally tougher.”

Dickenson wants to see his quarterback making better decisions with the football.

“Things are going to happen, interceptions will happen, but try to take calculated risks, rather than just putting the ball up there and hoping that we catch it,” said Dickenson.

A former quarterback himself, he knows the importance of that vital position.

“You cannot win without good quarterback play,” Dickenson said. “You’ve got to be able to make some plays — off-schedule plays, move-around plays, plays that break down, plays that aren’t designed perfectly, but somehow you found the right guy, and then those big throws where you’re taking that hit.”

But it’s going to take a team effort, and that includes the club’s receiving corp.

“We always have to band together because we need everything to go right for our receivers to get the ball,” said Nik Lewis, the Stampeders’ receivers coach. “The running back has to pick up the blitz, the o-line has to block, the quarterback has to make the right reads, and then give us a catchable ball.”

Lewis brings a unique perspective to this season’s frustrations as he was a 22-year-old rookie in Calgary in 2004 when the Stamps went 4-14 under coach Matt Dunigan. They turned it around the next season and haven’t missed the playoffs since.”

“Thinking back and just looking at it, there’s just got to be an ultimate belief that you can get it done. Look at Montreal, they were 6-7 last year and they’ve gone 18-2 since then,” said Lewis.

Montreal is also looking to rebound from a 37-23 loss to the B.C. Lions last week. But for head coach Jason Maas, he says his team’s mindset doesn’t change, regardless of what happened the previous week.

“Last year when we went through a four-game losing streak, you couldn’t tell if we were on a four-game winning streak or a four-game losing streak by the way the guys were in the building, the way we prepared, the type of work ethic we have,” said Maas. “All our standards are set, so that’s all we focus on.”

While they may have already clinched a playoff spot, Alouettes’ quarterback Cody Fajardo says this closing stretch remains critical because they want to finish the season strong, just like last year when they won their final five regular-season games before ultimately winning the Grey Cup.

“It doesn’t matter about what you do at the beginning of the year,” said Fajardo. “All that matters is how you end the year and how well you’re playing going into the playoffs so that’s what these games are about.”

The Alouettes’ are kicking off a three-game road stretch, one Fajardo looks forward to.

“You understand what kind of team you have when you play on the road because it’s us versus the world mentality and you can feel everybody against you,” said Fajardo. “Plus, I always tend to find more joy in silencing thousands of people than bringing thousands of people to their feet.”

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 13, 2024.

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