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NORTH SYDNEY, N.S. —

B.J. Holland moved back to Cape Breton a changed man with the desire to inspire others to live on the sober side of life.

The 40-year-old North Sydney native, who celebrated one year of recovery from opioid and cocaine addiction in December, has started the SoberLife LiveLife online community. He hopes by sharing his personal story of addiction and recovery, he’ll help others on their own journey.

“I’m trying to give back,” he said. “People that knew me before, know how bad I was and now they see how clean I am … I’m here to fight for everyone and hopefully show them they can do it to. If I can do it, anybody can.”

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Holland was 14 when he tried cocaine for the first time. By 16, he was selling narcotics to fund his drug consumption.

“I was up to 10 (OxyContin) 80s every day. If I couldn’t find them, I’d use 40-50 (Percocet) a day,” said Holland, who estimates he spent $2,500 daily on narcotics.

“It was insane. Normally, I’m around 220 but then I only weighed 150 or 160 pounds. I’d be up for days. I could barely talk sometimes. I would slip into weeks of constant drug use.”

December 2018 was when things hit rock bottom for Holland who had been living in Brampton, Ont. for 15 years.

Selling as much as 30 ounces of cocaine a week plus other substances, Holland said his partners were pressuring him to start cutting the drugs with fentanyl because “everyone was doing it” to increase profits. He wanted no part of that.

“I have seen so many people die (from drug overdose),” he said. “People were dropping like flies around me. I didn’t want to have anyone’s death on my hands.”

B.J. Holland opens up during a bad day in October in this YouTube video. Warning: contains strong language:

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Around the same time, Holland’s family cut him off completely.

“My family said ‘that’s it, we’re done with you.’ They cut me right off,” he said. “I’m a momma’s boy and she didn’t talk to me for six or seven months. That was hard. Really hard.”

He told his partners he wanted to get clean and stop selling drugs.

Then he tackled withdrawal. It took three attempts before he succeeded.

At first, he tried doing it alone at home.

“I was detoxing from opioids and coke at the same time … I was throwing up blood. If I took a drink of water I’d puke,” he recalled.

His last attempt was a five-day withdrawal maintenance program at a Brampton hospital, supervised by medical professionals.

“My blood, the toxicity level (because of drug use) was off the charts,” he said.

After leaving hospital, Holland spent eight months in two different rehabilitation centres in Ontario. As he healed, he realized how much he wasn’t living life and how he wanted to help support others in their recovery.

SOBERLIFE LIVELIFE

After re-establishing his relationship with his mother, Holland moved back to North Sydney in October as a way to stay focused on his recovery.

After moving home, he started the SoberLife LiveLife social media initiative — an online peer support system for people in recovery, people actively using drugs who want to stop and family members of those struggling with or in recovery from addictions.

There is a SoberLife Facebook group and YouTube channel. In his YouTube videos, which have been viewed more than 30,000 times, Holland shares his history of drug abuse and withdrawal, his struggles in recovery and his daily successes as he continues to do things he couldn’t do while using.

The Facebook group has more than 1,300 members. It is kept private to try and monitor who is joining the site and ensure it remains a positive place for people in recovery.

Some like Holland share their personal stories of addiction and their successes in recovery. Others, like site moderator Sharon Lewis (a mental health and addictions counsellor), share inspirational quotes and support when someone posts they are worried their “bad day” might lead to drug use.

B.J. Holland talks about his first Christmas sober in almost 30 years in this YouTube video:

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Lewis knew Holland when they were teenagers, but the Cape Breton native who now lives in Halifax, lost touch with him as his life turned to drugs. Thanks to Facebook, Lewis reconnected with Holland after seeing his posts about his new sober life.

“To watch a person who’s gone so far pull himself back, it’s inspiring,” she said. “For me to watch him grow into this (SoberLife initiative) and start supporting others in their own recovery … it’s inspiring. It’s a great thing he’s doing for the community.”

Lewis is passionate about helping people with addictions find their way to recovery and she thinks the SoberLife social media initiative can help.

“It can be really hard to find these support systems when you are dealing with an addiction,” she said.

“I guess my motto would be the more supports you have the better … If you have supports in place, you have a higher success rate in recovery. This group is a solid foundation of a support group that is continuous every day and accepting of everyone.”

CAN THIS HELP?

There are many social media channels and groups dedicated to recovery, like Holland’s SoberLife LiveLife, and experts say they can be beneficial.

“From a community support and strengths-based perspective, there is some evidence that online groups can support positive engagement with recovery behaviours. They give people hope and shared motivation,” said Nova Scotia Health Authority mental health and addictions spokesperson Maureen Wheller, speaking generally and not specifically about Holland’s SoberLife.

Christine Porter, executive director of the Ally Centre of Cape Breton, also sees the benefits these channels can have by helping people connect.

“Connection is the key to a successful recovery and unfortunately some people don’t have a connection to supportive family or friends,” said Porter.

“People with lived experience are best equipped to support others going through this. They are considered safe and non-judgmental. Recovery is not easy. But now, thanks to this group, when people find themselves wavering, they have a whole group of people who they can reach out to for suggestions on coping or even getting back on the wagon.”

Porter thinks there could be one downside to social media channels like Holland’s — internet trolls and uneducated people with negative views on substance use disorder/recovery.

“I think the only problem with this could be the monitoring of new members and the site itself. How can you be certain if this person wanting to join is indeed ‘safe and non-judgmental?’” she said.

Staff at the health authority warn of another potential downfall — inaccurate information.

“Social media can also be an unhealthy place for some people; advice may not be based on science and evidence,” Wheller said. “We recommend people discuss any support, strategy or advice given in those forums with their health-care provider.”

FUTURE PLANS

Holland hopes SoberLife LiveLife is the beginning of his journey helping people find their way to recovery and stay in it. Along with others trying to beat substance use disorder, Holland said he’s had family members reach out asking for advice on how to help their loved one stop using.

Holland hopes to eventually bring SoberLife into the real world with a physical space — a drop-in centre for people to go to for a hot meal, a shower or a chat when they fear they’re close to falling off the wagon.

“I just want to help my community,” Holland said. “I want to help as much as I can. I want people to believe in me. I know I can make a difference.”

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What to stream this weekend: ‘Civil War,’ Snow Patrol, ‘How to Die Alone,’ ‘Tulsa King’ and ‘Uglies’

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Hallmark launching a streaming service with two new original series, and Bill Skarsgård out for revenge in “Boy Kills World” are some of the new television, films, music and games headed to a device near you.

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Alex Garland’s “Civil War” is finally making its debut on MAX on Friday. The film stars Kirsten Dunst as a veteran photojournalist covering a violent war that’s divided America; She reluctantly allows an aspiring photographer, played by Cailee Spaeny, to tag along as she, an editor (Stephen McKinley Henderson) and a reporter (Wagner Moura) make the dangerous journey to Washington, D.C., to interview the president (Nick Offerman), a blustery, rising despot who has given himself a third term, taken to attacking his citizens and shut himself off from the press. In my review, I called it a bellowing and haunting experience; Smart and thought-provoking with great performances. It’s well worth a watch.

— Joey King stars in Netflix’s adaptation of Scott Westerfeld’s “Uglies,” about a future society in which everyone is required to have beautifying cosmetic surgery at age 16. Streaming on Friday, McG directed the film, in which King’s character inadvertently finds herself in the midst of an uprising against the status quo. “Outer Banks” star Chase Stokes plays King’s best friend.

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Trump could cash out his DJT stock within weeks. Here’s what happens if he sells

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Former President Donald Trump is on the brink of a significant financial decision that could have far-reaching implications for both his personal wealth and the future of his fledgling social media company, Trump Media & Technology Group (TMTG). As the lockup period on his shares in TMTG, which owns Truth Social, nears its end, Trump could soon be free to sell his substantial stake in the company. However, the potential payday, which makes up a large portion of his net worth, comes with considerable risks for Trump and his supporters.

Trump’s stake in TMTG comprises nearly 59% of the company, amounting to 114,750,000 shares. As of now, this holding is valued at approximately $2.6 billion. These shares are currently under a lockup agreement, a common feature of initial public offerings (IPOs), designed to prevent company insiders from immediately selling their shares and potentially destabilizing the stock. The lockup, which began after TMTG’s merger with a special purpose acquisition company (SPAC), is set to expire on September 25, though it could end earlier if certain conditions are met.

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Moreover, Trump’s involvement in Truth Social has been a key driver of investor interest. The platform, marketed as a free speech alternative to mainstream social media, has attracted a loyal user base largely due to Trump’s presence. If Trump were to sell his stake, it might signal a lack of confidence in the company, potentially shaking investor confidence and further depressing the stock price.

Trump’s decision is also influenced by his ongoing legal battles, which have already cost him over $100 million in legal fees. Selling his shares could provide a significant financial boost, helping him cover these mounting expenses. However, this move could also have political ramifications, especially as he continues his bid for the Republican nomination in the 2024 presidential race.

Trump Media’s success is closely tied to Trump’s political fortunes. The company’s stock has shown volatility in response to developments in the presidential race, with Trump’s chances of winning having a direct impact on the stock’s value. If Trump sells his stake, it could be interpreted as a lack of confidence in his own political future, potentially undermining both his campaign and the company’s prospects.

Truth Social, the flagship product of TMTG, has faced challenges in generating traffic and advertising revenue, especially compared to established social media giants like X (formerly Twitter) and Facebook. Despite this, the company’s valuation has remained high, fueled by investor speculation on Trump’s political future. If Trump remains in the race and manages to secure the presidency, the value of his shares could increase. Conversely, any missteps on the campaign trail could have the opposite effect, further destabilizing the stock.

As the lockup period comes to an end, Trump faces a critical decision that could shape the future of both his personal finances and Truth Social. Whether he chooses to hold onto his shares or cash out, the outcome will likely have significant consequences for the company, its investors, and Trump’s political aspirations.

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Arizona man accused of social media threats to Trump is arrested

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Cochise County, AZ — Law enforcement officials in Arizona have apprehended Ronald Lee Syvrud, a 66-year-old resident of Cochise County, after a manhunt was launched following alleged death threats he made against former President Donald Trump. The threats reportedly surfaced in social media posts over the past two weeks, as Trump visited the US-Mexico border in Cochise County on Thursday.

Syvrud, who hails from Benson, Arizona, located about 50 miles southeast of Tucson, was captured by the Cochise County Sheriff’s Office on Thursday afternoon. The Sheriff’s Office confirmed his arrest, stating, “This subject has been taken into custody without incident.”

In addition to the alleged threats against Trump, Syvrud is wanted for multiple offences, including failure to register as a sex offender. He also faces several warrants in both Wisconsin and Arizona, including charges for driving under the influence and a felony hit-and-run.

The timing of the arrest coincided with Trump’s visit to Cochise County, where he toured the US-Mexico border. During his visit, Trump addressed the ongoing border issues and criticized his political rival, Democratic presidential nominee Kamala Harris, for what he described as lax immigration policies. When asked by reporters about the ongoing manhunt for Syvrud, Trump responded, “No, I have not heard that, but I am not that surprised and the reason is because I want to do things that are very bad for the bad guys.”

This incident marks the latest in a series of threats against political figures during the current election cycle. Just earlier this month, a 66-year-old Virginia man was arrested on suspicion of making death threats against Vice President Kamala Harris and other public officials.

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