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Whenever my husband and I talk about investing, we fight. How can we get on the same path? – The Globe and Mail

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Darryl Brown, investment planner and founder of You&Yours Financial in Toronto.

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Question from a Globe and Mail reader: “My husband and I have very different risk tolerances when it comes to investing. His family lost a lot of money in the 2008 financial crisis and as a result, he is very conservative with his investing approach. He has almost $100,000 invested in a high interest savings account which I don’t think is an efficient strategy. Whenever I bring up the topic of investing, we fight. Do you have any tips on how to approach the subject with him?”

Answer from Darryl Brown, an independent investment consultant and founder of You&Yours Financial in Toronto: Your husband sounds a lot like my partner. Though for different reasons, she, like your husband, doesn’t tolerate financial risk well at all. Even though I am a professional investment consultant, this wasn’t an easy gap for us to bridge. Money in relationships is never straightforward. And, like all things in relationships, there is no “right” way to do things.

The decision to invest is a combination of two things: ability – do you have the money – and willingness to actually do it. Willingness to invest always trumps ability, in my opinion. A person who is not willing to accept the risk that their money will fluctuate over time, should not be pressured into doing so. Too often, it leads to unsuccessful outcomes (i.e. panic selling when the markets go down).

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In my previous post, I talked about the importance of creating an Investment Policy Statement (IPS) as the key to successful investing. For anyone investing their money, it is an incredibly important process to go through, even if you’ve been investing for years.

Creating an IPS as a couple takes a lot of consensus across objectives, timelines, risk, liquidity and more. Additionally, as with your husband, people can be significantly affected by both direct and observed experiences. For every person you hear boasting about their returns or successful investment strategy, there are 100 people who are too ashamed to share their cautionary tale.

So, how do you successfully approach investing with your significant other?

First, Listen.

Like, really listen. Take a walk through the respective experiences that affect how you feel about money in general. Think of it like financial therapy. Really dig into how you both feel and why. These can be challenging conversations, but they often reveal that a person’s attitude about money has very little to do with money.

Second, ask “Why?”

Lost in the day-to-day market commentary, which overwhelms most people, is the “why” we invest in the first place. If your basics are covered, meaning you have a good financial plan in place and an emergency fund, investing is the best way to meet your financial objectives. I think this is a simple sentiment but is often overlooked when folks get wrapped up in the jargon, highs and lows of investing and it can take on a nervous emotional energy.

Successful investing is not solely about making money. It’s about figuring out the life you want to live and what you need to get there. I encourage my clients to invest with intention. Intention means understanding why you are investing in the first place. Communicating and aligning on your goals sounds pretty basic but you’d be surprised how many couples don’t take the time and operate on assumptions.

Third, plan.

We all visualize that beach we want to retire on but going beyond the daydream to actually planning how you’ll get there really matters. Committing it to paper helps immensely. From there, investing simply becomes the mechanism by which you’ll achieve those goals, and the ebb and flow of the market and stock predictions become less central to success. When you look at investing as a way to live the life you want, it takes on a much more empowered energy. Suddenly the trees become a forest.

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I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. A successful investment strategy should be reflective of the individual(s) investing. If you commit to the above steps together, I’m certain you and your husband will open an important dialogue about investing and find solutions that feel comfortable for you both.

Darryl Brown is an independent investment consultant and founder of You&Yours Financial in Toronto.

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Energy stocks help lift S&P/TSX composite, U.S. stock markets also up

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TORONTO – Canada’s main stock index was higher in late-morning trading, helped by strength in energy stocks, while U.S. stock markets also moved up.

The S&P/TSX composite index was up 34.91 points at 23,736.98.

In New York, the Dow Jones industrial average was up 178.05 points at 41,800.13. The S&P 500 index was up 28.38 points at 5,661.47, while the Nasdaq composite was up 133.17 points at 17,725.30.

The Canadian dollar traded for 73.56 cents US compared with 73.57 cents US on Monday.

The November crude oil contract was up 68 cents at US$69.70 per barrel and the October natural gas contract was up three cents at US$2.40 per mmBTU.

The December gold contract was down US$7.80 at US$2,601.10 an ounce and the December copper contract was up a penny at US$4.28 a pound.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 17, 2024.

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S&P/TSX gains almost 100 points, U.S. markets also higher ahead of rate decision

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TORONTO – Strength in the base metal and technology sectors helped Canada’s main stock index gain almost 100 points on Friday, while U.S. stock markets climbed to their best week of the year.

“It’s been almost a complete opposite or retracement of what we saw last week,” said Philip Petursson, chief investment strategist at IG Wealth Management.

In New York, the Dow Jones industrial average was up 297.01 points at 41,393.78. The S&P 500 index was up 30.26 points at 5,626.02, while the Nasdaq composite was up 114.30 points at 17,683.98.

The S&P/TSX composite index closed up 93.51 points at 23,568.65.

While last week saw a “healthy” pullback on weaker economic data, this week investors appeared to be buying the dip and hoping the central bank “comes to the rescue,” said Petursson.

Next week, the U.S. Federal Reserve is widely expected to cut its key interest rate for the first time in several years after it significantly hiked it to fight inflation.

But the magnitude of that first cut has been the subject of debate, and the market appears split on whether the cut will be a quarter of a percentage point or a larger half-point reduction.

Petursson thinks it’s clear the smaller cut is coming. Economic data recently hasn’t been great, but it hasn’t been that bad either, he said — and inflation may have come down significantly, but it’s not defeated just yet.

“I think they’re going to be very steady,” he said, with one small cut at each of their three decisions scheduled for the rest of 2024, and more into 2025.

“I don’t think there’s a sense of urgency on the part of the Fed that they have to do something immediately.

A larger cut could also send the wrong message to the markets, added Petursson: that the Fed made a mistake in waiting this long to cut, or that it’s seeing concerning signs in the economy.

It would also be “counter to what they’ve signaled,” he said.

More important than the cut — other than the new tone it sets — will be what Fed chair Jerome Powell has to say, according to Petursson.

“That’s going to be more important than the size of the cut itself,” he said.

In Canada, where the central bank has already cut three times, Petursson expects two more before the year is through.

“Here, the labour situation is worse than what we see in the United States,” he said.

The Canadian dollar traded for 73.61 cents US compared with 73.58 cents US on Thursday.

The October crude oil contract was down 32 cents at US$68.65 per barrel and the October natural gas contract was down five cents at US$2.31 per mmBTU.

The December gold contract was up US$30.10 at US$2,610.70 an ounce and the December copper contract was up four cents US$4.24 a pound.

— With files from The Associated Press

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 13, 2024.

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S&P/TSX composite down more than 200 points, U.S. stock markets also fall

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TORONTO – Canada’s main stock index was down more than 200 points in late-morning trading, weighed down by losses in the technology, base metal and energy sectors, while U.S. stock markets also fell.

The S&P/TSX composite index was down 239.24 points at 22,749.04.

In New York, the Dow Jones industrial average was down 312.36 points at 40,443.39. The S&P 500 index was down 80.94 points at 5,422.47, while the Nasdaq composite was down 380.17 points at 16,747.49.

The Canadian dollar traded for 73.80 cents US compared with 74.00 cents US on Thursday.

The October crude oil contract was down US$1.07 at US$68.08 per barrel and the October natural gas contract was up less than a penny at US$2.26 per mmBTU.

The December gold contract was down US$2.10 at US$2,541.00 an ounce and the December copper contract was down four cents at US$4.10 a pound.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 6, 2024.

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