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Commercials: Learning Social Graces

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Have you seen the latest Leon commercial where the beloved goofy yuppie couple was hosting another couple in their home? I enjoyed it very much but noticed something that pointed to our societal need for affirmation, political correctness, and self-power.

The host offered the guest some charcuterie but mispronounced the name. The guest quickly corrected the host’s miswording. There you go. Did the guest do the right thing? Have you found current societal approaches to simple personal responses, claims, and actions that may offend others as targets of social media attacks and corrections? A politician that said something or did something many years ago that today is seen as offensive, or perhaps a not well thought out name for a new automobile that’s name means something offensive in another nation. But more personally noticed are the moments, words, and actions of others that for whatever reason, become a cause celeb for a short while.

Sure being straightforward with another is acceptable, even educational. Why did the guest react to the host’s inaccurate naming of charcuterie? Achieving power by appearing to be smarter than the other person. Are they so close they can speak to each other in that manner? The host’s reaction was one of nervous laughter and not acceptance. The host was made to be humiliated and uncomfortable. Such things happen on social media daily. Attacking those who have, who have achieved or tried to achieve others’ approval, applause perhaps. Say the wrong word, appear to be less intelligent than presented, and wagging tongues will attempt to knock them down a peg or two. People have a Jackal and Hyde approach to others. Nice to see someone better themselves, but also would it not be nice to criticize and belittle someone too?

The host will surely not invite these people back to their homes. Wonder what should have been done?
The power was held by the guest realizing the social blip. Say nothing and enjoy the offered food. While making drinks perhaps say to the host that he has heard that charcuterie can be pronounced many ways such as the correct way. In polite conversation, much can be achieved. Build up his friend, and not pull him down. Are people generally mean-spirited? Often correcting someone is just as mean as hitting them with a stick. The guest showed himself to be the smaller man, and certainly not a good friend.

Not everything is worth correcting. Before responding always think before you speak.
Correct with evidence and not your opinion. That way solutions can be found and not personalized.
Never embarrass the other person.
It is always the way you say something.
Correct using questions…the Socratic method.

Above all be prepared to be corrected, open to conversation and debate, but always with an open mind and cheerful heart. We exist to build up ourselves and our neighbors in a process demanding logic, charity, and goodhearted will.

Steven Kaszab
Bradford, Ontario
skaszab@yahoo.ca

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RCMP arrest second suspect in deadly shooting east of Calgary

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EDMONTON – RCMP say a second suspect has been arrested in the killing of an Alberta county worker.

Mounties say 28-year-old Elijah Strawberry was taken into custody Friday at a house on O’Chiese First Nation.

Colin Hough, a worker with Rocky View County, was shot and killed while on the job on a rural road east of Calgary on Aug. 6.

Another man who worked for Fortis Alberta was shot and wounded, and RCMP said the suspects fled in a Rocky View County work truck.

Police later arrested Arthur Wayne Penner, 35, and charged him with first-degree murder and attempted murder, and a warrant was issued for Strawberry’s arrest.

RCMP also said there was a $10,000 reward for information leading to the arrest of Strawberry, describing him as armed and dangerous.

Chief Supt. Roberta McKale, told a news conference in Edmonton that officers had received tips and information over the last few weeks.

“I don’t know of many members that when were stopped, fuelling up our vehicles, we weren’t keeping an eye out, looking for him,” she said.

But officers had been investigating other cases when they found Strawberry.

“Our investigators were in O’Chiese First Nation at a residence on another matter and the major crimes unit was there working another file and ended up locating him hiding in the residence,” McKale said.

While an investigation is still underway, RCMP say they’re confident both suspects in the case are in police custody.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 13, 2024.

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26-year-old son is accused of his father’s murder on B.C.’s Sunshine Coast

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RICHMOND, B.C. – The Integrated Homicide Investigation Team says the 26-year-old son of a man found dead on British Columbia’s Sunshine Coast has been charged with his murder.

Police say 58-year-old Henry Doyle was found badly injured on a forest service road in Egmont last September and died of his injuries.

The homicide team took over when the BC Coroners Service said the man’s death was suspicious.

It says in a statement that the BC Prosecution Service has approved one count of first-degree murder against the man’s son, Jackson Doyle.

Police say the accused will remain in custody until at least his next court appearance.

The homicide team says investigators remained committed to solving the case with the help of the community of Egmont, the RCMP on the Sunshine Coast and in Richmond, and the Vancouver Police Department.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 13, 2024.

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Metro Vancouver’s HandyDART strike continues after talks break with no deal

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VANCOUVER – Mediated talks between the union representing HandyDART workers in Metro Vancouver and its employer, Transdev, have broken off without an agreement following 15 hours of talks.

Joe McCann, president of Amalgamated Transit Union Local 1724, says they stayed at the bargaining table with help from a mediator until 2 a.m. Friday and made “some progress.”

However, he says the union negotiators didn’t get an offer that they could recommend to the membership.

McCann says that in some ways they are close to an agreement, but in other areas they are “miles apart.”

About 600 employees of the door-to-door transit service for people who can’t navigate the conventional transit system have been on strike since last week, pausing service for all but essential medical trips.

McCann asks HandyDART users to be “patient,” since they are trying to get not only a fair contract for workers but also a better service for customers.

He says it’s unclear when the talks will resume, but he hopes next week at the latest.

The employer, Transdev, didn’t reply to an interview request before publication.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 13, 2024.

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