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Rape: An Historic Weapon

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Rape: A definition? Do we need one really? The force used by one person against another results in intercourse and any other sexual interaction not accepted by the other.

In the past, from the times of Genghis Khan to the present day, the act of rape has become a weapon of the invader, oppressor, and tyrant. Kham’s armies used rape as a means to bring unruly villagers or city dwellers under control. He would often joke to his men about how many thousands of his men’s bastards were born to those they ruled. Rape and pillage were the anthem of many an army though out the centuries. Raping their opponents women and men created several problems for the oppressed. Their men were humiliated and dishonored. Mongol children were born in a nation where they could one day ride and fight for a Mongol Khan. The women’s presence caused further problems, as their former partners often treated them as unwanted people, humiliated and unclean as well. The oppressed society was torn asunder, families dissolving, and morally at fault, as it could not defend and protect their most weak. It is believed that the Khans invented this methodology of psychologically wounding their opponents. Transmitting fear onto a community is what many tyrants imagine rape should be used for.

In Medieval times the brother, father, or male relative of a woman recently widowed would offer to become her protector or even husband. This was an important issue, as widows were often left to care for themselves in a society with no financial or physical protection for such a woman or her children. Many women were officially raped by said protectors, and this action was most likely accepted by the Church. More powerful men could with no accountability rape any woman or young man as they desired. Wealth and power outweigh the moral and religious imperative. One Cardinal of Rome raped over a dozen women, siring dozens of children.

Once someone is raped, a process begins for the raped, but not for those who rape. If you consider the type of person who would rape another, one can imagine a very weak, lustful individual, wanting power and significance from another. Rape can be about sex, but forcing the other becomes the main thrill for a rapist. I have met many rapists in prison. They are as different as you and I, but they all share certain qualities.

Rapists can be like you or me, not strange or abnormal in appearance or action.
They try to appear as important, strong, and powerful people.
They will look for someone who appears to be weak, and easily controlled.
They exhibit feelings of inferiority and do not know how to provoke desire within another for them.
They lack most forms of empathy towards one another.
No thought to the consequences of an assault upon another, to the victim or themselves.
They may have no training in understanding sexuality. Being a victim of abuse themselves.
* They believe they have the right to be aggressive, violent and rape another.
Rapists have a tendency towards being gamblers, throwing everything to the wind.
They are Not Mentally ill and believe themselves above society’s moral, ethical law.
* They evade responsibility for the rape and blame the victim.

Whether they are psychopaths or normal criminals, human in every way except for their desires to lord it over another.
Rape is being used as a military and psychological tool within the Russo-Ukrainian Conflict today. Russian soldiers enter villages and towns gathering all men and boys. They then visit each cottage and rape the women there. Imagine the thoughts of these ladies and girls and later that of their male loved ones. Mental illness, depression, and suicide often follow. Russian soldiers have been told to do this by their officers because it will make the soldiers feel powerful, and allow them to exact vengeance upon their foe. Systematic rape programs have been used by many armies throughout history to some effect.

Rapists in China are met with a bullet in the back of the head, with the bill for the bullet sent to their family. Muslim Nations stone, behead, kill their rapists. Western Nations have been advised by psychologists and therapists that rape is to be treated as a mental illness ultimately jailing many thousands for this crime, often with no mental health assistance offered to them.

Men and Women often are psychologically persuaded through the use of pornography or the stories told to them within the cultures they live in that having sex, making love, and gratifying oneself can be forced upon another.
Pornography presents situations where the prey forces themselves upon another with the ultimate satisfaction of the victim clearly on their face for all to see. “I did not want this to happen, but damn it was good”. A mental picture is presented to the viewer showing them that sex is good, and can be fulfilling without receiving the other participant’s approval. Porn is a videoed entertainment, cartoons, graphics, and pictorials presenting to an audience wishing to be there, a world without limits, an unnatural world. The sex fiend finds this satisfying and attempts to apply it to their present-day experience. Chaos can and does follow. Pornography often presents viewers with a message that incest, forced sex, and deception of another are all okay, and allowable.

Ever felt like you had been assaulted(raped) by something the media presented, a concept or idea so harsh, difficult to mentally manage? The very action of assault or rape beats the victim down mentally, physically, and socially as well. There is a powerful stigma attached to the actions of rape. The victim’s emotional and psychological state of mind can be unalterable, unthinkable, and forever damaged. That is what rape does whether it be a Woman or Male as a victim, it makes living a challenge. The questions from the authorities, family, and society wanting to know what happened and why will forever be within the victim’s memory.

How can a victim rehabilitate themselves? They often cannot not, needing a helping hand, open mind & heart of a professional or family member. Rape victims often separate themselves from their commonplace society, seeking a space that can assure them of safety from others. They seek isolation, the one thing that can allow them to pursue negative solutions to their problems such as addiction, self-harm, or suicide. A simple hug, conversation, and charitable efforts, listening always is what is needed.

I wish we lived in a world where such harmful actions did not happen and those who prey upon others could seek help before they pounce. “Wishes are only granted in fairy tales” (Simone Elkeles). Society must protect its members from acts of violence whether it be from someone they know, strangers, or advancing armies.

“Many who live deserve to die. And some who die deserve to live. Can you decide for them? Then do not be too eager to deal out punishment or judgment, for even the very wise cannot see all ends(answers) RR Tolkien-lord of the rings. A writer’s perspective tells us there are no real answers to many of our questions, but being human assures us that there are others who love and care for us, and stand with us against the storm of criminality and fear.

Steven Kasab
Bradford, Ontario
skaszab@yahoo.ca

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Looking for the next mystery bestseller? This crime bookstore can solve the case

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WINNIPEG – Some 250 coloured tacks pepper a large-scale world map among bookshelves at Whodunit Mystery Bookstore.

Estonia, Finland, Japan and even Fenwick, Ont., have pins representing places outside Winnipeg where someone has ordered a page-turner from the independent bookstore that specializes in mystery and crime fiction novels.

For 30 years, the store has been offering fans of Agatha Christie’s Hercule Poirot or Arthur Conan Doyle’s Sherlock Holmes a place to get lost in whodunits both old and new.

Jack and Wendy Bumsted bought the shop in the Crescentwood neighbourhood in 2007 from another pair of mystery lovers.

The married couple had been longtime customers of the store. Wendy Bumsted grew up reading Perry Mason novels while her husband was a historian with vast knowledge of the crime fiction genre.

At the time, Jack Bumsted was retiring from teaching at the University of Manitoba when he was looking for his next venture.

“The bookstore came up and we bought it, I think, within a week,” Wendy Bumsted said in an interview.

“It never didn’t seem like a good idea.”

In the years since the Bumsteds took ownership, the family has witnessed the decline in mail-order books, the introduction of online retailers, a relocation to a new space next to the original, a pandemic and the death of beloved co-owner Jack Bumsted in 2020.

But with all the changes that come with owning a small business, customers continue to trust their next mystery fix will come from one of the shelves at Whodunit.

Many still request to be called about books from specific authors, or want to be notified if a new book follows their favourite format. Some arrive at the shop like clockwork each week hoping to get suggestions from Wendy Bumsted or her son on the next big hit.

“She has really excellent instincts on what we should be getting and what we should be promoting,” Micheal Bumsted said of his mother.

Wendy Bumsted suggested the store stock “Thursday Murder Club,” the debut novel from British television host Richard Osman, before it became a bestseller. They ordered more copies than other bookstores in Canada knowing it had the potential to be a hit, said Michael Bumsted.

The store houses more than 18,000 new and used novels. That’s not including the boxes of books that sit in Wendy Bumsted’s tiny office, or the packages that take up space on some of the only available seating there, waiting to be added to the inventory.

Just as the genre has evolved, so has the Bumsteds’ willingness to welcome other subjects on their shelves — despite some pushback from loyal customers and initially the Bumsted patriarch.

For years, Jack Bumsted refused to sell anything outside the crime fiction genre, including his own published books. Instead, he would send potential buyers to another store, but would offer to sign the books if they came back with them.

Wendy Bumsted said that eventually changed in his later years.

Now, about 15 per cent of the store’s stock is of other genres, such as romance or children’s books.

The COVID-19 pandemic forced them to look at expanding their selection, as some customers turned to buying books through the store’s website, which is set up to allow purchasers to get anything from the publishers the Bumsteds have contracts with.

In 2019, the store sold fewer than 100 books online. That number jumped to more than 3,000 in 2020, as retailers had to deal with pandemic lockdowns.

After years of running a successful mail-order business, the store was able to quickly adapt when it had to temporarily shut its doors, said Michael Bumsted.

“We were not a store…that had to figure out how to get books to people when they weren’t here.”

He added being a community bookstore with a niche has helped the family stay in business when other retailers have struggled. Part of that has included building lasting relationships.

“Some people have put it in their wills that their books will come to us,” said Wendy Bumsted.

Some of those collections have included tips on traveling through Asia in the early 2000s or the history of Australian cricket.

Micheal Bumsted said they’ve had to learn to be patient with selling some of these more obscure titles, but eventually the time comes for them to find a new home.

“One of the great things about physical books is that they can be there for you when you are ready for them.”

This report by The Canadian Press was first published on Sept. 15, 2024.



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Labour Minister praises Air Canada, pilots union for avoiding disruptive strike

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MONTREAL – Canada’s labour minister is praising both Air Canada and the union representing about 5,200 of its pilots for averting a work stoppage that would have disrupted travel for hundreds of thousands of passengers.

Steven MacKinnon’s comments came in a statement shared to social media shortly after Canada’s largest air carrier announced it had reached a tentative labour deal with the Air Line Pilots Association.

MacKinnon thanked both sides and federal mediators, saying the airline and its pilots approached negotiations with “seriousness and a resolve to get a deal.”

The tentative agreement averts a strike or lockout that could have begun as early as Wednesday for Air Canada and Air Canada Rouge, with flight cancellations expected before then.

The airline now says flights will continue as normal while union members vote on the tentative four-year contract.

Air Canada had called on the federal government to intervene in the dispute, but Prime Minister Justin Trudeau said Friday that would only happen if it became clear no negotiated agreement was possible.

This report from The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 15, 2024.

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As plant-based milk becomes more popular, brands look for new ways to compete

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When it comes to plant-based alternatives, Canadians have never had so many options — and nowhere is that choice more abundantly clear than in the milk section of the dairy aisle.

To meet growing demand, companies are investing in new products and technology to keep up with consumer tastes and differentiate themselves from all the other players on the shelf.

“The product mix has just expanded so fast,” said Liza Amlani, co-founder of the Retail Strategy Group.

She said younger generations in particular are driving growth in the plant-based market as they are consuming less dairy and meat.

Commercial sales of dairy milk have been weakening for years, according to research firm Mintel, likely in part because of the rise of plant-based alternatives — even though many Canadians still drink dairy.

The No. 1 reason people opt for plant-based milk is because they see it as healthier than dairy, said Joel Gregoire, Mintel’s associate director for food and drink.

“Plant-based milk, the one thing about it — it’s not new. It’s been around for quite some time. It’s pretty established,” said Gregoire.

Because of that, it serves as an “entry point” for many consumers interested in plant-based alternatives to animal products, he said.

Plant-based milk consumption is expected to continue growing in the coming years, according to Mintel research, with more options available than ever and more consumers opting for a diet that includes both dairy and non-dairy milk.

A 2023 report by Ernst & Young for Protein Industries Canada projected that the plant-based dairy market will reach US$51.3 billion in 2035, at a compound annual growth rate of 9.5 per cent.

Because of this growth opportunity, even well-established dairy or plant-based companies are stepping up their game.

It’s been more than three decades since Saint-Hyacinthe, Que.-based Natura first launched a line of soy beverages. Over the years, the company has rolled out new products to meet rising demand, and earlier this year launched a line of oat beverages that it says are the only ones with a stamp of approval from Celiac Canada.

Competition is tough, said owner and founder Nick Feldman — especially from large American brands, which have the money to ensure their products hit shelves across the country.

Natura has kept growing, though, with a focus on using organic ingredients and localized production from raw materials.

“We’re maybe not appealing to the mass market, but we’re appealing to the natural consumer, to the organic consumer,” Feldman said.

Amlani said brands are increasingly advertising the simplicity of their ingredient lists. She’s also noticing more companies offering different kinds of products, such as coffee creamers.

Companies are also looking to stand out through eye-catching packaging and marketing, added Amlani, and by competing on price.

Besides all the companies competing for shelf space, there are many different kinds of plant-based milk consumers can choose from, such as almond, soy, oat, rice, hazelnut, macadamia, pea, coconut and hemp.

However, one alternative in particular has enjoyed a recent, rapid ascendance in popularity.

“I would say oat is the big up-and-coming product,” said Feldman.

Mintel’s report found the share of Canadians who say they buy oat milk has quadrupled between 2019 and 2023 (though almond is still the most popular).

“There seems to be a very nice marriage of coffee and oat milk,” said Feldman. “The flavour combination is excellent, better than any other non-dairy alternative.”

The beverage’s surge in popularity in cafés is a big part of why it’s ascending so quickly, said Gregoire — its texture and ability to froth makes it a good alternative for lattes and cappuccinos.

It’s also a good example of companies making a strong “use case” for yet another new entrant in a competitive market, he said.

Amid the long-standing brands and new entrants, there’s another — perhaps unexpected — group of players that has been increasingly investing in plant-based milk alternatives: dairy companies.

For example, Danone has owned the Silk and So Delicious brands since an acquisition in 2014, and long-standing U.S. dairy company HP Hood LLC launched Planet Oat in 2018.

Lactalis Canada also recently converted its facility in Sudbury, Ont., to manufacture its new plant-based Enjoy! brand, with beverages made from oats, almonds and hazelnuts.

“As an organization, we obviously follow consumer trends, and have seen the amount of interest in plant-based products, particularly fluid beverages,” said Mark Taylor, president and CEO of Lactalis Canada, whose parent company Lactalis is the largest dairy products company in the world.

The facility was a milk processing plant for six decades, until Lactalis Canada began renovating it in 2022. It now manufactures not only the new brand, but also the company’s existing Sensational Soy brand, and is the company’s first dedicated plant-based facility.

“We’re predominantly a dairy company, and we’ll always predominantly be a dairy company, but we see these products as complementary,” said Taylor.

It makes sense that major dairy companies want to get in on plant-based milk, said Gregoire. The dairy business is large — a “cash cow,” if you will — but not really growing, while plant-based products are seeing a boom.

“If I’m looking for avenues of growth, I don’t want to be left behind,” he said.

Gregoire said there’s a potential for consumers to get confused with so many options, which is why it’s so important for brands to find a way to differentiate themselves, whether it’s with taste, health, or how well the drink froths for a latte.

Competition in a more crowded market is challenging, but Taylor believes it results in better products for consumers.

“It keeps you sharp, and it forces you to be really good at what you’re doing. It drives innovation,” he said.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 15, 2024.



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