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Women/Girls Relationship with Power/Intimacy and Abuse

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I have been accused of being a feminist and that is O.K. I love women, and respect and marvel at how females tolerate the often horrid ways “men” treat them.

1. Police reported data Canada: In 2019 88,,990 women aged 15 and over experienced intimate partner violence.
2. Self-reporting data Canada: More than 6.2 million women aged 15 and over experienced some form of psychological, sexual or physical abuse. Three in ten women have experienced some form of abuse.

These statistics seem low if you compare them to women being abused within intimate relationships in other parts of the world. Known as Africa’s Shadow Pandemic, the United Nations pointed out that while the pandemic(COVID-19) was a primary cause, the very nature of African Manhood is a crucial key to the 50% increase in abuse towards women on the continent. Curfews and COVID restrictions kept couples and families together, creating a stress point that developed into an opportunity for abuse. I say opportunity, because no matter how pissed off you are, how disappointed, insecure, and fearful you may be, abusing another, especially those who depend upon you is horrid and a crime. Mental health issues aside, violence in any form is damaging to both parties, creating a real-life victimhood that stays for life. Stigma, both cultural and personal stains a victim’s future development, but also the abuser’s opportunities to reform and change.

2 in 3 Asian women experience abuse and violence in their lifetime. 33% of partnered women and girls aged 15-49 will experience physical and/or sexual violence from current or former husbands or male partners. Over 20,000 women and girls were murdered by their intimate partners in 2017 alone. Over 38% of Chinese women experience violence from males, and girls experience far higher levels(due to sexual/gender prejudices). Did you know that only 77 nations have legislation explicitly criminalizing marital/partner rape? (United Nations Library).

Some will call abusers cowards, scum, and criminals. I call them socially set droids, people who were often abused as kids, who watched their parents and friends’ interactions where violence seemed appropriate. “She deserved what she got, a hit today makes for a future lady or strict physical discipline makes the man”. Hit someone enough times, yell, and psychologically scar someone for most of their young life and they become the abuser. Most victims of a bully become bullies themselves in time. Lashing out without thought to the feelings and needs of another becomes commonplace.

Much also depends upon how a family or greater culture views women. Religion, culture, political ideology, and social viewpoints can place men on a pedestal, and women somewhere below the social chain, but the application of violence and abuse is solely a learned trait. Son learns from family members or friends, while daughters listen to the lived experiences of their family members. How a man could come to believe that he has the right and opportunity to sexually, physically, or psychologically abuse their family charges is beyond acceptance, but understandable at the same time.

Are most men animals of the hunt, seeking acknowledgment at all times? Emotionally restricted, limited in their personal expressions and feelings? Influenced by their family and community yes, but personally obligated to accept their wrongful actions and destructive thoughts. Incest, rape, and harmful actions towards “the weaker sex” become second nature to someone who sees women and girls as possessions, things to use. During the war in Bosnia and Herzegovina, Serbian Troops entered villages killing all men and boys, while gathering all women to rape and impregnate Serbian Fetuses. They saw these women as nothing more than objects, and instead of murdering them, they changed their lives through the use of continual violence. @28% of these women committed suicide, 33% killed their fetuses before birth, 18% after birth, remainder had these children and either adopted them or brought them up as their children(United Nations Library). The things men do!

The National Authorities can do only so much. Is the state incapable of protecting women and children from predators, particularly those who are supposed to love them- family members? It is difficult for social authorities to impart social and public policy by entering into the private lives of our fellow citizens. The educational system is a tool that cannot be discounted no matter the culture. Young minds must witness truer equality and respect for all, boys and girls alike. The possible conflicting experiences that happen at home and school can then be discussed and dealt with. Having a police-social officer within each school allows children to communicate with the authorities, or allows a perceptive officer-teacher to recognize children-women in distress.

I was taught to never strike a woman by someone who I found out did in fact strike my mother. Booze and high emotions were involved, but violence was never the answer. Some men believe “women deserve a bruising for their missing”, and women can be as destructive and hurtful as any man I know. Just look at social media and you will shake your head often in disbelief. The whole experience of abuse falls upon one premise, that the pursuit of power over another leads to abuse, which leads to fear and further conflict. Humans seem to always seek to better themselves through the materialism and influence they can gather onto themselves. Perhaps what is needed is a full allotment of busybodies to look into their family, neighbors, and community interactions. Perhaps Mullahs, Priests, Preachers, Teachers, Cops, and You too can become your neighbor’s protector. What else can we do? We create laws to protect each other but don’t have the ability or willingness to enforce them. Much abuse happens behind closed private doors, and our privacy is paramount.

What to do? What to do?

Steven Kaszab
Bradford, Ontario
skaszab@yahoo.ca

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Motorcycle rider dead in crash that closed Highway 1 in Langley, B.C., for hours

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LANGLEY, B.C. – Police in Langley, B.C., say one person is dead in a crash between a car and a motorcycle on Highway 1 that shut down the route for hours.

Mounties say their initial investigation indicates both vehicles were travelling east when they collided shortly before 4:20 a.m. near 240 Street on the highway.

The motorcycle rider died from their injuries.

Highway 1 was closed for a long stretch through Langley for about 11 hours while police investigated.

RCMP say their integrated collision analysis reconstruction team went to the scene.

The Mounties are asking anyone who witnessed the crash or who may have dash-camera footage from the area to call them.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 19, 2024.

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‘She is dying’: Lawsuit asks Lake Winnipeg to be legally defined as a person

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WINNIPEG – A court has been asked to declare Lake Winnipeg a person with constitutional rights to life, liberty and security of person in a case that may go further than any other in trying to establish the rights of nature in Canada.

“It really is that simple,” said Grand Chief Jerry Daniels of the Manitoba Southern Chiefs’ Organization, which filed the suit Thursday in Court of King’s Bench in Winnipeg.

“The lake has its own rights. The lake is a living being.”

The argument is being used to help force the provincial government to conduct an environmental assessment of how Manitoba Hydro regulates lake levels for power generation. Those licences come up for renewal in August 2026, and the chiefs argue that the process under which those licences were granted was outdated and inadequate.

They quote Manitoba’s Clean Environment Commission, which said in 2015 that the licences were granted on the basis of poor science, poor consultation and poor public accountability.

Meanwhile, the statement of claim says “the (plaintiffs) describe the lake’s current state as being so sick that she is dying.”

It describes a long list of symptoms.

Fish species have disappeared, declined, migrated or become sick and inedible, the lawsuit says. Birds and wildlife including muskrat, beavers, duck, geese, eagles and gulls are vanishing from the lake’s wetlands.

Foods and traditional medicines — weekay, bulrush, cattail, sturgeon and wild rice — are getting harder to find, the document says, and algae blooms and E. coli bacteria levels have increased.

Invasive species including zebra mussels and spiny water fleas are now common, the document says.

“In Anishinaabemowin, the (plaintiffs) refer to the water in Lake Winnipeg as moowaakamiim (the water is full of feces) or wiinaagamin (the water is polluted, dirty and full of garbage),” the lawsuit says.

It blames many of the problems on Manitoba Hydro’s management of the lake waters to prevent it flushing itself clean every year.

“She is unable to go through her natural cleansing cycle and becomes stagnant and struggles to sustain other beings like animals, birds, fish, plants and people,” the document says.

The defendants, Manitoba Hydro and the provincial government, have not filed statements of defence. Both declined to comment on the lawsuit.

Daniels said it makes sense to consider the vast lake — one of the world’s largest — as alive.

“We’re living in an era of reconciliation, there’s huge changes in the mindsets of regular Canadians and science has caught up a lot in understanding. It’s not a huge stretch to understand the lake as a living entity.”

The idea has been around in western science since the 1970s. The Gaia hypothesis, which remains highly disputed, proposed the Earth is a single organism with its own feedback loops that regulate conditions and keep them favourable to life.

The courts already recognize non-human entities such as corporations as persons.

Personhood has also been claimed for two Canadian rivers.

Quebec’s Innu First Nation have claimed that status for the Magpie River, and the Athabasca Chipewyan First Nation in Alberta is seeking standing for the Athabasca River in regulatory hearings. The Magpie’s status hasn’t been tested in court and Alberta’s energy regulator has yet to rule on the Athabasca.

Matt Hulse, a lawyer who argued the Athabasca River should be treated as a person, noted the Manitoba lawsuit quotes the use of “everyone” in the Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

“The term ‘everyone’ isn’t defined, which could help (the chiefs),” he said.

But the Charter typically focuses on individual rights, Hulse added.

“What they’re asking for is substantive rights to be given to a lake. What does ‘liberty’ mean to a lake?

“Those kinds of cases require a bit of a paradigm shift. I think the Southern Chiefs Organization will face an uphill battle.”

Hulse said the Manitoba case goes further than any he’s aware of in seeking legal rights for a specific environment.

Daniels said he believes the courts and Canadians are ready to recognize humans are not separate from the world in which they live and that the law should recognize that.

“We need to understand our lakes and our environment as something we have to live in cohesion with.”

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 19, 2024.

— By Bob Weber in Edmonton



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MPs want Canadians tied to alleged Russian influencer op to testify at committee

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OTTAWA – MPs on the public safety and national security committee voted unanimously to launch an investigation into an alleged Russian ploy to dupe right-wing influencers into sowing division among Americans.

A U.S. indictment filed earlier this month charged two employees of RT, a Russian state-controlled media outlet, in a US$10-million scheme that purportedly used social media personalities to distribute content with Russian government messaging.

While not explicitly mentioned in court documents, the details match up with Tenet Media, founded by Canadian Lauren Chen and Liam Donovan, who is identified as her husband on social media.

The committee will invite Chen and Donovan to testify on the matter, as well as Lauren Southern, who is among the Tenet cast of personalities.

The motion, which was brought forward by Liberal MP Pam Damoff and passed on Thursday, also seeks to invite civil society representatives and disinformation experts on the matter.

Court documents allege the Russians created a fake investor who provided money to the social media company to hire the influencers, paying the founders significant fees, including through a company account in Canada.

The U.S. Justice Department doesn’t allege any wrongdoing by the influencers.

Following the indictment, YouTube removed several channels associated with Chen, including the Tenet Media channel.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 19, 2024.

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