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Underaged Marriage: Something That Needs to End Now!

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Historically found in many of the world regions, and accepted within many cultures, is the social practice of child marriage. That is the religious-civil union between an adult and a child, someone who is 13 years of age or younger.

This practice happens daily on several continents, particularly in Africa, Asia, Asia Minor-Middle Eastern Nations, and Latin America where poverty places limitations to the education and well-being of both children and adults alike. But the social influences of poverty cannot be the only thing to blame here. as a deterioration of societal norms, of morally and ethically declining social structures, turn humanity’s negativity inwards towards the family, once protected, but now a breeding ground for societal greed, lust and abuse.

Many national governments have cracked down upon underage marriages, as to the slave trade of children and women throughout the world. What should be a community precious gift, a child, becomes a means to an end. That is to say that children are sold by their families, traded for land and property, and abused by their elders under the guise of perverted religious-social norms. Many religions in the past allowed underage marriage for several reasons….

The Average life span tended to be very short, placing demands upon women to appease males’ desires for children.

Women often died before their time, and male counterparts looked to the young as a source of sexual partnership.

The governmental and social structures allowed intermarriage between the elderly and youths of similar class structures.

Biblical theology reinforces religious traditions allowing the aged and youth to marry(Judaic, Christian and Islamic)

Incest, child abuse, and abuse of women are rampant within many nations, within both financial and impoverished communities.

Underaged marriage places society at risk, presenting the world with a situation where women cannot protect their young, where a human being (child) is seen as a possession that can be traded, sold or married to an aged person of wealth. Financial exchanges happen, much like the practice of presenting a dowry, but the child is basically sold.

For example In Mozambique children under the age of 12 are married to older partners daily. A law to prevent such marriages was passed in 2019, but the practice continues with social acceptance. The law puts legal sanctions upon tribal, religious and civil leaders who promote, allow and officiate at such marriages. This strong legal framework simply is not effective enough to end centuries-old traditions. International attention is placed on the harm placed upon these youthful brides, who suffer mental and physical harm from their new husbands and their families. Most youthful brides are innocent, and unprepared for sexual intercourse, suffering tearing of vaginal muscles, as to other physical abuses. Many of these men are also allowed to return their brides to their families if not pleased with their marriage, disgracing the bride, her family and the community. These young girls are often shunned by their families, and communities and sometimes killed. Suicide is another side effect of underage marriage. Within many cultural-societal traditions what happens in the marriage is hidden and protected by the greater community, so abuse, rape and beatings can and do occur.

Religious and Biblical Traditions show underaged marriage to be acceptable within their sacred books, so why not in contemporary society? Within several US States underage age marriage is allowed. In Western Canada underage marriage is happening particularly within the Muslim Community. I have seen very aged gentlemen visit a neighbour and spend time with a 12-year-old girl, affectionately chatting with them. I asked what was going on, to be told the man was wooing the child. I told the parents such practices were illegal in Canada. They told me the courting would take years and the marriage would not happen until the child was 16 years of age, a time the parents could give approval. Cultural traditions practiced in the Old World are assuredly transplanted to the New World. In Pennsylvania, I witnessed unexpectedly the marriage of two young girls (aged 12-14) to an elderly fellow. The Christian Church was an independent organization affiliated with the Mormon Confederation. Police were present, so I guess they expected possible trouble to occur. Objecting to the practice only resulted in our forcible expulsion.

Underaged Marriage seems to be an assault upon many things, such as the development of a child’s personality, their freedom to choose a future direction, the development of the child’s self-understanding their own personhood, their body and mind. For many men to marry such a young person is certainly an act to gain control of the very young woman, their body, their sex, and their future. Like Incest, marrying a child is nothing more than an act of possession, ownership and misguided emotional desire leading to powering over someone that should be protected by the adult, not used for selfish needs.

We live in a society that allows many things that were once considered anti-social and even deviant. This liberalism, this open-mindedness is welcomed, but our responsibility to protect the weak, the innocent, the misguided even, remains with us. Underaged children being married to adults is wrong. If someone loves another, then waiting an acceptable period until the child is of age, should be demanded by society, our communities and the authorities that regulate us.

Steven Kaszab
Bradford, Ontario
skaszab@yahoo.ca

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Yankees wrap up AL East with 10-1 win over Orioles, with Judge hitting 58th homer

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NEW YORK (AP) — Aaron Judge hit his major league-leading 58th home run, going deep for the fifth straight game to help the New York Yankees wrap up their second AL East title in three years with a 10-1 victory over the Baltimore Orioles on Thursday night.

Giancarlo Stanton had four RBIs that included his 27th homer, Alex Verdugo also homered and Gerrit Cole outpitched Corbin Burnes in a possible postseason preview. Judge and Stanton homered in the same game for the 14th time this year, tying Mickey Mantle and Roger Maris in 1961 for the most in Yankees history.

New York assured itself a first-round bye and home-field advantage in a best-of-five AL Division Series starting Oct. 5.

Baltimore, which clinched a postseason berth by winning Tuesday night’s opener of the three-game series, will be in a best-of-three Wild Card Series starting Tuesday.

Stanton homered in the second to put the Yankees ahead and hit a three-run double in a six-run sixth.

Judge hit a two-run homer in the seventh against Bryan Baker and has 144 RBIs, the most in the major leagues since Ryan Howard’s 146 in 2008. Judge matched his career best by homering in five consecutive games.

Making his last start before the playoffs, Cole (8-5) allowed two hits in 6 2/3 innings, struck out five and walked one, lowering his ERA to 3.41. He struck out Anthony Santander with a 98.1 mph fastball that ended the eighth after plate umpire David Rackley called a ball on the previous pitch, a knuckle-curve that appeared to be just above the strike zone. Cole glared as the umpire as the pitcher walked back to the dugout.

Cole was given a standing ovation when he walked to the dugout with two outs in the seventh and tipped his cap to the crowd of 42,022.

Burnes (15-9) allowed two hits in five innings, one walk and nine strikeouts — including eight on cutters. Burnes came out after 69 pitches and is likely to start the Orioles’ postseason opener on Tuesday. He had a 1.20 ERA in five September starts.

Stanton lofted a slider at the bottom of the strike zone into the left-field seats after missing badly at a slider on the prior pitch.

Austin Wells, in a 4-for-42 slide, forced in a run when he walked with the bases loaded against Cionel Pérez. Stanton drove the next pitch on one hop to the wall in right-center for a 5-1 lead. Stanton has 72 RBIs after hitting 6 for 18 with two doubles, two homers and eight RBIs in his last five games.

Anthony Rizzo added a two-run single against Baker.

Emmanuel Rivera hit a ninth-inning sacrifice fly for the Orioles.

UP NEXT

Orioles: LHP Cade Povich (2-9, 5.59) starts a series opener at Minnesota on Friday, when LHP Pablo López (15-9, 4.11) will be on the mound for the Twins.

Yankees: LHP Carlos Rodón (16-9, 3.98), 7-2 with a 2.87 ERA since the All-Star break. starts Friday’s series opener against Pirates RHP Jared Jones (6-8, 4.14).

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Ostlund scores overtime winner to give Sabres a 3-2 pre-season win over Senators

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September 26, 2024

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OTTAWA – Noah Ostlund scored the overtime winner for the Buffalo Sabres in a 3-2 pre-season win over the Ottawa Senators on Thursday night.

Buffalo’s lineup had a combined total of just over 100 NHL games of experience as most of its regular roster is in Munich, Germany for the upcoming Global Series Challenge.

Felix Sandstrom made 14 saves for the Sabres (4-0-0). Josh Dunne and Isak Rosen had the Buffalo goals.

Adam Gaudette and Noah Gregor scored for Ottawa. Linus Ullmark made his first start in a Senators (3-1-0) uniform and didn’t disappoint, stopping 28 of 29 shots through 30 minutes of play.

Dustin Tokarski made 10 saves over a period and a half.

Ottawa opened the scoring at 7:55 after Carter Yakemchuk made a great defensive play to create a turnover. Gregor was then sent down the wing and he beat Sandstrom on the glove side.

Buffalo tied the game at the 10-minute mark. Vsevolod Komarov made a cross-crease pass to Dunne who stepped into the faceoff circle and beat Ullmark.

Buffalo had a 24-5 edge in shots after the first period.

Gaudette gave Ottawa the lead midway through the third with a power-play goal that was set up by Yakemchuk. Rosen tied it with 40.7 seconds remaining.

The Senators were expected to make a number of cuts after the game to reduce the size of their roster.

NOTES: The Sabres were given a special exemption from the league before the game. Teams usually have to dress a minimum of eight NHL veterans, but Buffalo didn’t have any in its lineup.

UP NEXT: The Senators will take on the Pittsburgh Penguins on Sunday in Sudbury, while the Sabres will head to Columbus on Saturday.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 26, 2024.

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Coach says Nylander will be fine after early departure in Leafs’ 2-1 win over Habs

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TORONTO – The Toronto Maple Leafs got a scare in a 2-1 win over the Montreal Canadiens on Thursday night when star forward William Nylander left the game midway through the first period after taking a knock to the head.

He was held out for the rest of the game for what the team called “precautionary reasons.” Maple Leafs head coach Craig Berube said Nylander avoided serious injury and would be OK.

“Willy will be fine,” said Berube. “Nothing to worry about.”

Nylander was the latest Maple Leafs star to suffer an injury scare, as Auston Matthews departed practice this week with what Berube deemed an upper-body ailment. Matthews did not play on Thursday.

John Tavares and Nick Robertson scored for Toronto in the Maple Leafs’ first win of the pre-season. Christian Dvorak tallied for Montreal.

The Maple Leafs outshot the Canadiens 33-17.

Nylander was tripped up in the neutral zone and hit in the head by a passing Montreal player as he fell. The 27-year-old went straight to the dressing room after the play.

Tavares opened the scoring midway at 10:12 of the first period by tipping home a deft touch-pass from Mitch Marner. It was the fourth point for Tavares in two games.

“There were better sides to our game,” Tavares said. “The way we played, all three zones, we were a little more connected. The pace of our game was better. Moving the puck better.

“I liked the way that we were getting in on the forecheck.”

Dvorak pulled Montreal even at 5:39 of the second period after taking advantage of a slick feed from Alexandre Barre-Boulet at the Toronto blue line.

Dvorak held off Maple Leafs defender Morgan Rielly and tucked the puck between goalie Anthony Stolarz’s legs.

Robertson had two breakaways later in the period but both were turned aside by Montreal netminder Jakub Dobes.

Robertson eventually capitalized with the winner at 18:04. He stripped the puck from Canadiens defender Adam Engstrom, drawing a penalty in the process, and beat Dobes between the legs.

“Heck of a play,” said Maple Leafs forward Steven Lorenz. “That’s just hard work, not giving up on a play. And it shows a maturity for a young guy like him. Coming on the backcheck and stripping the guy, going in and on the first three strides getting some separation and getting a great shot on the guy’s five hole.

“I get tired just watching him. He’s a good little player.”

Matt Murray took over for Stolarz in the third period for his first game action since suffering a hip injury on April 4, 2023. He stopped all seven shots he faced.

“He’s had a good summer, healthy summer,” Berube said of Murray. “He was able to train and do the things he needs to do. You know, this guy has won a couple (Stanley) Cups. He knows how to win. He’s a good goalie.

“So, I think it’s just kind of progressed from the summertime through to camp here now. He looked solid. He’s a big guy, takes up a lot of net.”

Stolarz had nine saves and Dobes made 32 stops.

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The Maple Leafs and Canadiens will face each other again on Saturday in Montreal.

This report by The Canadian Press was first published Sept. 26, 2024.

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